Tag: stress
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Done here – 11/14/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. I don’t kiss anyone’s rear, never have, never will. I don’t boost anyone’s ego, and I don’t rely on anyone’s approval, only God. I’m not a follower, and I earned everything I’ve done. I learned that my value is a lot greater than what was being reciprocated here and…
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The scolding micromanager appears – 10/28/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. It certainly was an interesting day, but I was able to get through it. I didn’t take anything as bad intention, but certainly watching out and shows how we should at times just pick up the phone or do a face to face call to clear things up. We…
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The idea that I’m going to get paid or promoted – 10/15/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. I took a couple days off and after some thought I’m not going to get paid or promoted staying here even though the supervisor has told me twice. Send me an email, hurry, where is it? Nothing has happened, but trust and having good relationships with others at work…
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Friday reflection – patient rage – 10/11/24
I hope everything is okay. Here they go again with their subtle games and envy energy. It’s as if one of the two is taunting me via email. Is it the mean girls season or what? Either way the cat lady (co-worker) wants to outshine us as a team and the fact that she really…
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And it just went insane, but not really – 10/09/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. I can’t believe what people react to and what they think stress is. People live in a bubble. Their version of reality is different from mine. I do have to laugh as they seem to believe the stress they feel is like the end of the world. The life…
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The cold shoulder for a cold person – 9/25/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. Lately, it hasn’t failed for the supervisor to subtly assert herself toward me or feel uncomfortable around me. What is going on? I’m too busy to deal with her. She has tried to assert herself as the boss but doesn’t have her facts straight. She tried to “show me”…
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Why is it important who’s right? – 10/01/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. As a leader you should be able to manage disagreements, hear both sides of one story, not tell us who’s right. Why do you take sides? Part of being a leader is to be intelligent to find solutions to issues, not to put blame unless someone steals, loses money,…
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Ready to give it a go – 9/18/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. I am no longer liking commuting in. The thought of my drive came to me today, should I stay or should I go? And then investigator #2 happens and it brings confirmation of my thought. Investigator #2 is on the attack again. I’ve made a decision to walk away…
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Dropped the bomb on me! – 9/12/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. I wasn’t prepared for the bomb that dropped, and I almost fell off my chair, sitting down. Thinking back, I didn’t really have to think of how fast and how much is coming across my desk. What is going on? I have never had this happen in my career,…
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Race to the finish line – 9/11/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. I’m tired, I have worked another 10-hour work day. I’m pushing through one day at a time to submit documents for a settlement on behalf of investigator #5. Why do I have to go through this, it feels like I’m the only one that this happens to. The project…