Tag: tension
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Ready to rumble? – 4/2/25
I hope everyone is doing okay. The medical doctor (MD) is upset, rightfully so because the lack of communication and a missed opportunity to provide input to the budgets, negotiate, and provide more information to increase the budget and be able to complete the work. I don’t know what happened or who did not pay…
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No need to show your ego – 3/27/25
I hope everyone is doing okay. Why? Why instead of answering my question he tells me how great he is? He’s been doing this a long time, very well versed in our finance system SAP. He was tasked to train me. My co-worker who I’ll call AM really goes out of his way to pump…
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Observing people closely – 3/19/25
I hope everyone is doing okay. I’m getting help from the people I least expected. I walked in to work today feeling beaten down. I took a deep breath and my co-worker who I wish would be my boss came in to my office and I immediately told him what occurred yesterday. He mentioned things…
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Done here – 11/14/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. I don’t kiss anyone’s rear, never have, never will. I don’t boost anyone’s ego, and I don’t rely on anyone’s approval, only God. I’m not a follower, and I earned everything I’ve done. I learned that my value is a lot greater than what was being reciprocated here and…
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The set up – 11/13/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. I was called into the supervisor’s office at 11am today. I took 11/12/24 off to clear my head. I didn’t know what the meeting would be about. My thought was that we would re-group and try to resolve Monday’s situation. She asked where I was with my tasks and…
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Friday reflection – the feisty lady crosses the line – 11/01/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. She won’t stop being feisty. She’s not supporting anyone, volunteering at department events, won’t do any favors for others. I guess she wants to be paid and not do anything? She voluntarily took on completing a program report for an investigator, a role I specifically asked if she was…
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More work and difficult people – 10/31/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. “What you put out you will get back.” I’m trying to ignore the situation, but it is backfiring on me. The cat lady continues to be mean and continues to affect my friend and I. She feels safe and comfortable criticizing the rest of us. She defends herself even…
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The scolding micromanager appears – 10/28/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. It certainly was an interesting day, but I was able to get through it. I didn’t take anything as bad intention, but certainly watching out and shows how we should at times just pick up the phone or do a face to face call to clear things up. We…
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Friday reflection – the old is still new – 10/18/24
I hope everyone is doing okay. I work with women that think their old school mentality and view of working is the new way to handle us younger people. One is angry (cat lady), always on the defensive, and wants to be negative about everything even though things go great. She thinks everyone is out…
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Fighting the potential turbulence – 10/10/24
I hope everyone is dong okay. It’s coming, I see it coming already. It’s been gradually building up and there is turbulence that is on my mind. I feel it coming with the turbulence is the rift. I’m trying to hold back and drown it out. I’m being observant of the movements and holding back…
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