YoungHeart1980!

I hope everyone is doing okay. This is week 3 of post-surgery and I’m beginning to feel better, feeling the healing changes. I am doing a bit more of indoor exercises and getting around much better on my own.

The lesson learned in the past is not to engage in the chaos around me. Despite my careful attempts I no longer want to be invited and not playing mediator. I have to be careful and not include myself in other’s matters in hopes to calm situations because I have in the past come out losing on both ends. These two don’t know compromise and I’m not looking for a battle. It’s really all non-sense. There is nothing for me to react to and it’s around me. I’m steering clear. The energy is very tense between the colleague and supervisor. Our supervisor makes a general comment, but I know it’s not directed toward me. I get it. I’m focused on my healing, working and getting back to normal.

My focus is to accomplish things at work, paying attention to detail, collaborate and looking forward. I’m making progress in every aspect both personal and work, created healthy boundaries for myself and others even organized everything to reduce the stress. I’m no longer going to be behind at work because someone else doesn’t care to learn, only wants things handed to them and completing the minimum to get by.

I see clear and what’s happening is not aligning with my work style. Things are all over the place with both these people, but I set up all my resources I need for self-support. I have aligned things to begin working for me. Not my battles, it’s theirs. All the Best!